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with love, liv's avatar

Great read! Love your mention of the panopticon, a concept I've also been thinking a lot about lately. I see this topic discussed a lot for modern-day celebrities but not enough for regular people, so it's nice to see a piece that discusses that!

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Whitney's avatar

Thank you! And yeah I only seem to hear about celebrities too but we're truly held to a similar standard but without the safety net

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TheCurlDon's avatar

I’m hearing among my friends that they all hate to be perceived. That’s how I feel sometimes too. Probably because of this! Great blog ✨

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Whitney's avatar

Thank you so much!

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Anitra's avatar

I love love love this post! I recently wrote something somewhat adjacent to it, about our collective love/hate relationship to internet anonymity (as in we love projecting onto anonymity until we can no longer extract what we need from it and then it all goes left). I appreciate the link between the fear of constantly being watched to people maintaining small numbers of close friends. There's so much good stuff to unpack here. Thanks for writing this.

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Whitney's avatar

Thank you so much! I'm glad you enjoyed it!

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